1 on 1 Consulting
I will serve as your strategy partner and divorce coach.
A custody and divorce battle can be difficult and isolating. While you may feel alone, I want you to know that you are not.
1-on-1 Strategy Session
Your thinking & strategy partner
As a certified high-conflict divorce coach and trained parenting coordinator, our strategy sessions are customized based on your topics, goals and emotional health. As a neutral third party I am able to provide an objective perspective to improve your effectiveness and save you financially. I will be there to help you keep putting one foot in front of the other when you need it most.
We will work together to fill your toolbox with documentation techniques and communication skills that will help bring your truth to light. Doing an inventory of your thoughts, your emotional state, your support team, your circumstances, the variables in your case and the dynamics of your local court system is critical to finding your strategy.
You will come to lawyer appointments prepared with documentation in order and a focused agenda.
Find your voice again
Navigating separation and divorce with a high-conflict individual (HCI) presents specialized challenges that traditional approaches often fail to resolve. Our work is centered on providing you with the clarity and structure needed to effectively manage this unique dynamic. We help parents establish necessary boundaries and reclaim a confident, clear voice in their communications.
High-conflict behaviors are often associated with certain personality styles that are driven by, or thrive on, conflict. This dynamic requires a strategic, non-standard response—not the typical methods used with cooperative co-parents.
Since the legal system may not always fully recognize the psychological and emotional impact these specific behaviors have on children and family members, our focus is on implementing strategies that prioritize your child's long-term well-being and help you maintain a protected, stable environment.
Support & validation
I am here to listen, support and validate you in your journey. I will work together with you on communication, co-parenting (or parallel parenting), parenting with a high conflict individual, preparation for mediation or court dates, custody battle strategies, and avoiding or combatting false parental alienation claims.
Somehow children’s best interests get lost in the eyes of family courts and mother’s rights or father’s rights are superseding children’s rights. Protective parents are often labelled as part of the problem when in fact their primary focus is solely the best interests of their children.
Together we will find your voice and amplify your truth.
"A.S. Custody & Divorce Consulting was such a lifesaver!
She took time to listen to my concerns, validate my experience, and provide me with excellent resources during a tumultuous time.
She connected me with an excellent IT person, who took great care to ensure my online security was tightened. A.S. Custody & Divorce Consulting has a comforting presence and understands navigating high-conflict situations in a way that is supportive and educational.
Thank you so much!"
- A.L.
What to Expect
Intake Form
An intake form via email to be filled out 24 hours prior to your first session.
Session Prep Form
A prep form to be filled out 24 hours prior to each subsequent session.
Support
I understand that it does not always ‘take two to tango’ in family court.
No matter where you are at, I will meet you there. You are no longer facing this mountain alone.
Tools
Your toolbox will be filled with valuable communication skills, documentation practices, strategic thinking, parenting & co-parenting skills, preparation for mediation or court, and self-care techniques.
